In Ethiopian culture, Mels refers to a traditional post-wedding celebration that typically follows the main wedding day (though in our case, we are having it a few months later in Frazer's hometown!). It is where the newlyweds, their families, and close friends gather to celebrate in a more relaxed and informal setting compared to the main wedding day.

Mels is often hosted by the groom’s family, symbolizing their welcoming of the bride into their household. Mels is a joyous occasion that strengthens familial and community bonds while honoring Ethiopian heritage.

Key Features of Mels:

Cultural Significance

Mels emphasizes family unity and the blending of the bride’s and groom’s families. It often showcases Ethiopian traditions, attire, and rituals.

Traditional Attire

During the Mels, the bride and groom typically wear traditional Ethiopian clothing, such as habesha kemis for the bride and kaba (a decorative cape) for both. Family and friends also wear traditional clothing, though it is not expected.

Ceremonial Elements

The couple often enters the venue to the sound of traditional music, greeted by ululations (ililta) and blessings from elders. Special traditional foods and drinks, such as injera, doro wat, and tej (honey wine), are served.

Social Dancing and Music

Traditional Ethiopian music and dancing, such as eskista (a shoulder-dance), play a big role in the celebration.

We invite all of our family and friends to join us at this celebration in January 2026 in Dallas, Texas.

More details to come as we approach the date!